Instant social
confidence korea method
How to overcome social
anxiety instantly?
Whenever I feel
anxious, like social meetings, marriages, conferences and functions, I will
think and feel one personality. That personality will pour me a huge amount of
energy and I will become instantly confident. His name is ‘korea’. Yes, you
heard it right, korea. 5 feet short round face, light blunted nose, peculiar
accessories with sharp eyes. 65 years old, belonged to a tribe. That tribe is
distinct in terms of cultural traits. If we change the accessories and dressing
style of those tribe women, no miss India or miss universe can come near to
them. Such gorgeous women, they are.
Korea’s main job is hunting.
There is a saying, A man without a tool is a half-man. He had his virgo web,
uli-like tool and additional instruments. He preferred to go alone for hunting
during ‘no moon’ night. Animals couldn’t see due to darkness and they become
vulnerable. Korea is an opportunist. He went one such night and prepared his
hunting. He looked for a strategic place to start and started pinning his web
at certain points. He continued till dawn. Around 5:45 am. He stitched his
final point at a certain location and started going back to see if any animal
being caught. No animal can escape from korea’s web. Once it is entered, there
is no exit point.
This time, he started
looking for animals those got caught. He was looking. He was looking. He
reached the point, where he started. Alas! Not even a single animal got caught.
He couldn’t take it up. It hasn’t happened in his 55 years of exclusive
experience in hunting. He came back with empty hand and withered face.
I, a timid shy 10 year
old guy, was standing with my father. He saw korea and shouted at him.
“KOREA. What have you
got?”
Korea replied
non-verbally, by raising his left hand and twisted left and right thrice.
My father identified
his mind-set and asked him to get ready for a function.
He belonged to a tribe
and they always live with their group. They were ostracized by the common
society. He felt very uncomfortable and didn’t want to be a part of that
function.
My father forcefully
took him to the function. Everybody started giving strange looks and signs. Korea
felt bad and I felt worse for his situation.
To comfort him, my father
gave a relevant example for him. How a fox jumped into the bucket of blue
painting, its color got changed, all animals looked the fox with fear. One day,
it got wet because of rain. Its secret revealed and all animals became
comfortable by seeing its true color.
Father continued “They
are doctors, engineers, advocates, collectors and businessmen but they are
basically human-beings. If you talk to them casually and behave normally, they
will treat you with respect”.
Korea nodded his head
as if he understood. I too got the confidence.
When korea started
explaining his amazing experiences of hunting at forest, many of them got
inspired. He almost forgot his shyness and his eyes were bright while he was
explaining. That was my bulb-moment.
If I feel nervous in
attending any function or meeting, I will shout silently to myself KOREA. I
will gain energy and confidence instantly.
Why was he named
‘korea’? I asked him at one point of time. I will share that in other video.
I call this ‘Korea
method – For instant confidence’. Try this for your next gathering and let me
know your experience in the comment section.
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